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Signs She May Be Cheating on You

This topic is a pretty tough one, but I’ll give you all the insight that I have on it. I say that it’s pretty difficult because women are some damn good manipulators and liars. The good news is women don't cheat as often as men. So if there is anyone who is the more guilty party, it's us. Studies have shown that about 10% of women in committed relationships have cheated on their partner, whereas almost double as many men have. However, if you haven’t been an attentive partner and haven’t taken any of my advice on how to have a good relationship and fulfill her needs, she just may look elsewhere for what she desires.

Before we get into signs that she is cheating, you have to understand why women cheat. The main reason women cheat is because they aren’t getting their needs fulfilled in some way or another. True there are a few whores out there that just like to have sex and want as much of it as they can. But most women will cheat and look elsewhere for what they need when they aren’t getting it at home. Normally it has nothing to do with the sex. But the sex with others is where they may just feel like they are going to find what they are missing at home.

Before we go any further, if she cheated on her boyfriend with you, there is a damn good chance that she’ll do it again. Don’t get involved with a woman that way. It will always lead to trouble and prove that you’re a moron.

The biggest things to keep your eyes open for is change. Some examples of changes are below:

If you talk to each other every single day on the phone like 5 times a day, whether they be bullshit conversations or not, and then it suddenly drops off to almost nothing……well her attention is going elsewhere, be suspicious.

If the sex life changes either for the better or the worse for no apparent reason at all, something is up. Normally it will change for the worse for whatever reasons she may give, but if there is really nothing that has facilitated the change…..be suspicious.

Her level of "give a shit" changes. If she used to care about the fact that you don’t talk enough, or go out enough, or whatever, and now suddenly she doesn’t give a shit either way, her focus is no longer on you and possibly on someone else….be suspicious.

Changes in her appearance, clothing, perfume, body. If all of a sudden she is buying new clothes and not showing them to you like she always does, then she is probably wanting to impress someone and doesn’t give a shit about your opinion. If she has had a standard perfume that she has always worn and all of a sudden it changes, be suspicious. Now some women buy new perfume all the time without it being indicative of cheating. However if it seems out of the norm, be suspicious. If she usually just puts on a squirt and now all of a sudden she is bathing in the whore sauce…..be suspicious.

If she has a new found calling to the gym that she never had before and is hell bent on looking better when it never mattered to you or her before, be suspicious. Odds are she is wanting to look better for someone, and it’s probably not you. Drastic hairstyle or clothing changes out of the norm are a sign too. Just basically any major and sudden changes that are suspicious... are suspicious.

Outside of the changes there are some signs that she will give that she is cheating on you. I like the phrase “a wounded dog always barks.” You know it’s true. If you don’t have eyes for anyone else, then you really don’t think your partner does either and normally aren’t too worried about it. Now let’s say you are going out to the clubs and hitting on women and chasing every piece of ass around. I bet the next time she goes out to a club, you’ll be thinking she will do the same thing and be pretty damn paranoid about it.

What I am saying is this. If she starts accusing you of having a wandering eye or cheating and you have given her no reason to think this… be suspicious. Now if in fact you are a pig and she knows it, then think nothing of her accusation. You’re deserving of them, moron. But if she is accusing you of cheating with absolutely no good reason to believe that you really are, it might be a pretty decent sign that she is frequenting the loving arms of Mandingo.

Another thing she may do is pick fights over the simplest shit all the time where she never did before. This is often a way for them to justify what they are doing behind your back.

Also, if you get a sense of shame from them, as if they can't look you in the eyes or they can’t kiss you or don’t want to kiss… be suspicious.

Most of all, trust your gut feelings but don’t let them ruin you. If you have cheated on her and your gut tells you that she is doing the same, don’t be so quick to trust those gut feelings. Remember a wounded dog always barks. It’s probably your shame telling you that. But if your gut is telling you that something is up, and there is no good reason for it, there probably is.

Don’t let the insecurity or jealousy ruin your relationship. Don’t go crazy snooping or checking her phone and email. If there is nothing to be worried about, then you can bet that this type of behavior will ruin a good relationship. If you want to get a good indicator if your suspicions are true, just ask. Have the balls to say “why all of a sudden are you so concerned about what you look like when you go out?” Judge her response. If she gets super defensive over it and you just get that gut feeling from the answers that something's suspicious… be suspicious.

If you want to avoid all of this, give them what they want, give them what they crave, read the other articles on here to get some help on relationships. If you are a great boyfriend, you shouldn't have to worry about reading this article.

GABRIEL

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