Insecurity and Premature Ejaculation

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Young slayers of virtue, this article will help you overcome one of the biggest hurdles to being outstanding in the bedroom.  I have been with a lot of women, and have been an outstanding lover, but still to this day I worry about premature ejaculation and insecurity in the bedroom.  

I want to write and give you some tips to overcoming both of these issues.  First let's address the pink elephant that's always in the room: penis size.  This is a huge mental hurdle for men because they worry they are not too outstanding in that department and will be judged because of it.  The truth is 90 percent of the men on the planet are completely average.  Average penis length is 5.5 inches.  If you don’t believe me, look it up.  The average depth of a woman’s vagina is 6 inches.  So fear not, you’re damn near bottoming out even if you are the average guy.  The other 10 percent of men are the Peter North’s of the world and are somewhat a freak of nature.  Regardless, there is definitely some truth to the saying that it’s not the size of the wand it’s the magic in it.

Well slayers of virtue, you can just call me Merlin.  As long as you know how to work it you don’t need a behemoth size penis.  If 90 percent of men are average then you can bet that 90 percent of the people she has been with have been average.  You have nothing to worry about.  The key is how you perform.

One of my personal biggest hurdles is premature ejaculation.  This stems from the countless times that we spank it trying to get off and get it over with as fast as you can.  By doing this, you are training your body to ejaculate quickly.  Often when you are faced with the real deal, your stamina sucks.  Try some of the following techniques to overcome this:


If you have to spank it, and we all do, try to avoid the wham-thud thank you stud approach.  Try to prolong it out.  When you feel like you are about to explode, bring it back a notch.  Concentrate on something else and go for distance, not speed.  You are actually conditioning the little guy to last longer, therefore increasing your stamina.

Ok, let’s say you’ve been conditioning yourself (even though you probably haven’t been) and the big night is here.  You’ve finally gotten her panties to her ankles and its go time.  A lot is riding on this.  You HAVE TO be a good lover.  If you ever want to crawl up inside it again, you better not disappoint.  Also, if she has hot friends that you ever want to nail, then you need to wow her.  Trust me fellas, they talk.  If you’re one of the best lovers she’s had, her friends just might be curious enough to give you a whirl.  

There are other articles on how to be a good lover through various techniques.  This article is strictly on how to avoid finishing the race before she does.  Below are just a few tips.  Practice making it all about her.  This entails not being personally satisfied until she is done.  It will get you more from and possibly open the doors to her hot friends.



CHANGE POSITIONS-- If you feel like you are getting ready to bust, you need to shut down the engines for her       benefit.  Changing positions is a great way to back down from climax.  Take a couple seconds to get to the next           position.  In the off time, you will be getting away from your peak and will have a lot better stamina.





CONCENTRATE ON SOMETHING—No, I’m not talking about thinking about Bea Arthur.  Even thinking abou Bea Arthur will lead you to thinking of her hot daughter.  Then you'll think about doing her hot daughter which puts you right back where you started.  Pick something completely boring to really concentrate on.  If you can see tiles on the floor, start counting them.  Do the multiplication tables in your head.  Say the alphabet backwards.  Anything that can take your mind off of how damn good it feels will help increase your stamina.



DON’T DO WHAT FEELS AMAZING-- If you think that the missionary position feels better than any other position, and you have a problem with stamina, use a different position!  There are a lot of other positions that she will probably like just as much which won’t result with you being a one pump chump.




BE A MASOCHISTIC FUCK-- This is one of the last resorts when you just can’t control yourself.  Do something that causes you mild pain.  I’m not talking about shoving a lamp up your ass but maybe pinch yourself to where it hurts a little, or close your eyes and poke yourself mildly hard with your knuckle.  Anything like that will bring you back from the point of no return.




Those are a few techniques that have worked for me, so give them a shot.  Oh, and a little whiskey dick never hurts.

Go forth young socks rockers, rock their socks!!!

GABRIEL

Editor's Note: If you can't hold out in the bedroom, maybe you can at least last long in a poker tournament. Check out our Gambling Section for Tournament Poker Tips.

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