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A big stumbling block for a lot of guys is knowing how to get a girl back to their place. There are a lot of ways to achieve this goal. Again though, you’ll have to be able to read her in regards to which techniques will work best on her. One of my favorite tricks is to have her meet at your place before going out on the town. It doesn’t matter the excuse you use; just get her there. This technique works well because you have two chances to seal the deal with this technique, at the beginning of the date as well as at the end. She will meet you at your house before you go out, so this is your first shot at making things happen. When she arrives, tell her you’ll be ready in a few minutes. Ask her if she wants a drink in the meantime. You never know, you might not even make it out the door if things go well initially! Give her some time to drink her drink and loosen up. Then if time permits, have a seat with her and start the talking to see if it can progress. Odds are, if you already have plans to go out, nothing will happen… but you never know. As a side note, don’t let your house or apartment look like a pig sty. If you don’t take care of where you live, then it will speak volumes about you and how you take care of yourself. Women are neat creatures for the most part. No woman wants to be with a complete and total slob. Also, don’t let it look like the ultimate bachelor pad with Playboys and shit all over the place. She’ll know you only want to get in her pants. No matter how much of the “I’m a good guy routine” you pull on her, she will never be convinced otherwise.  A big bonus, and this is hard for some guys, is to have your place decorated nicely. Almost all women love to decorate and have their place look trendy or cute. If you have your pad set up nicely, it will thoroughly impress her. She'll be turned on that you aren’t like most guys who can't decorate to save their lives. This is just bonus points for you and will tell her that you stand out in the crowd and are a keeper. Not to mention girls don’t like to be flat on their backs with their ankles in the air, when a three day-old grilled cheese is beside them on the nightstand. Keep a well stocked bar at your place. Have a white wine and a red wine, light beers, and as much of a liquor selection as you can. Having the wine will tell her that you are cultured and not some Neanderthal that is destined for a beer gut after crushing cans on your head. Having a large selection just ups your chances of being able to make her the drink that she enjoys. Let's say you didn’t get anywhere before going out on the town. That’s ok, now you’ll go out and show her a good time. Once she has had the time of her life with you, the attempt may be easier at the second go around. If there is any chemistry between the two of you whatsoever, getting her into your place will be no problem whatsoever. If there is no chemistry, then she will likely run straight for her car yelling goodbye from the window as she shifts from 2nd to 3rd. But if that’s not the case, then you need to actually get her inside your place. Girls don’t want to be looked at like sluts, so she’s probably not going to ask you to come in or to just follow you in. Even if she is into you and desperately wants to come in, she will plan on making her way to her car unless you do something to get her in. The tricky part is to not make it sound like you want to get her inside just to get the horizontal hokey pokey going. You can use the old "want to come in for a nightcap" spiel, but that is a bit cheesy. I personally just like to say; "Hey, want to come in for a great glass of wine and mediocre conversation before you take off?" That line has got a little bit of humor. Not only is it asking her to come for a reason that doesn’t make her feel like a slut, it also implies that you have no expectations that she will be staying the night. Saying, “before you go” implies that you know she is leaving. If she says she needs to be going, it could mean two things. She may be an attempt at playing a little hard to get, or she might actually be her way of saying that she doesn’t want to come in. In this case I like to say, "Ok, I understand, but I really didn’t want to stop talking to you yet. I’ve had a great time. You sure not even ONE glass of wine, I promise the big scary guy won’t bite." If she persists, then you have to let her go and save the battle for another day. If you get her inside, it’s all on you. You know what to do…..I hope. Godspeed young slayer of virtue, GABRIEL Editor's Note: If you don't, it's probably about time you checked out Sex God Secrets.
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